Thursday, August 5, 2010

Pregnant Man Gives Birth!!


Thomas Beatie, the transgender man who made headlines as the so-called "pregnant man," gave birth Sunday to a healthy baby girl, ABC News has learned.
"She's really cute, really pretty,'' the source told ABC News Thursday afternoon.The birth, at St. Charles Medical Center in Bend, Oregon, was natural, according to a source, who added that reports that Beatie had had a Caesarean section are false.
The source said Beattie was resting and the family was focusing its attention on the new baby.
Born a woman, Beatie, 34, who had had his breasts surgically removed and legally changed his gender from female to male, leaped to prominence around the world in April when the wispy bearded man revealed he was pregnant.
Despite years of taking hormones and living outwardly as a man, Beatie maintained that he retained his female sex organs because he intended one day to get pregnant.

Poverty A Problem Worth Fixing

Poverty and Women: Service Learning Project



Girls and Poverty in the United States has a huge effect on women and their journey that they have yet to conquer. Socioeconomic status effects children’s access to a better education and ultimately leaves them without any opportunity to even take a class on women’s studies at a university level. It is recorded by the National Center for Children Poverty that low-income family’s percentage is at thirty-nine percent. “Poverty can impede children’s ability to learn and contribute to social, emotional, and behavioral problems.”(Limpkin 24) Poverty also leads to poor health and mental health all together; and with that comes behavioral problems that will go unchallenged. The problem is not poverty at all it is more the pattern of the psyche to perpetually practice poverty’s mental mantras. On record found in a 1992 report by the AAUW; thirty-seven percent of female dropouts sights family issues as the culprit. Traditional gender roles also plays a part as girls assume responsibilities in order to contribute to the family. Compared to boys girls have an ingrained psychological pressure to become the caretakers. When family struggles surface, women are the ones that traditionally feel obligated to help. In recent statistics 63 percent of what is considered in the minority strata of the United States lives in poverty. This sets a bleak picture when considering the outcome of women and children.
I decided to take my Volunteering energy to Orlando’s Neighborhood Improvement Corporation because I wanted to work with an organization with a focus on poverty. ONIC’s focus is to build quality affordable homes, provide opportunities for working people to have safe and confortable housing, encourage quality neighborhoods and apartment communities through partnerships and sound management, and to analyze the needs for affordable and mixed-income housing in Central Florida. Their Mission is to be a leader in Central Florida in providing opportunities for housing that is safe, comfortable, affordable, and long lasting. Their vision is for healthy neighborhoods with quality affordable housing with a diversity of incomes and housing types.  Since their inception in 1989, ONIC had developed, co-developed, or partnered in 20 communities in Central Florida representing a total of 2,490 residential units. ONIC is a full-service nonprofit housing development company specializing in rental housing, both new construction and rehabilitating. ONIC also established their Resident Service Program to coordinate enhanced asset building services to create support systems to increase their resident’s quality of life. The Resident Services Program offers a Learning Center (specializes in educational actives, literacy classes, homework help, tutoring and computer labs), Cultural Arts (ONIC works with Orlando Prodigy to coordinate after school activities that teach life coping skills), Financial, Wealth Building and Self-Sufficiency (financial literacy, homebuyers, education and referrals, income tax filling, banking, exposure and access to savings/asset building), Civic (leadership development and volunteerism), and finally Social Activities (Event planning, Appreciation activities, day trips, and multicultural event).
My Volunteer hours contributed to ONIC’s youth and development activities which are structured activities that exposes youth to creatively express. These activities encompass leisure activities, multi-cultural group sessions, and community building experiences, skill building, arts, crafts, discussions, games, and team work activities. As a volunteer I worked in several ONIC locations and helped the Resident Service Staff with their day to day activities with children. I participated and help coordinate activities and also helped with managerial tasks. The managerial tasks included notifying residents on the ONIC properties to participate in a financial seminar that would validate a 25 percent coupon off their next month’s rent. My journey with ONIC help me become aware of the many different ways to engage residents to help the overall success and growth of impoverish communities. ONIC not only has a vested interest in teaching sound money managing techniques to its residents but above all they are focuses in helping the residents children by providing summer and after school camps to help their children while their tenants are busy working and providing. ONIC’s involvement in their residences development helps their cause by educating and empowering their residents to use ONIC as a stepping stone out of poverty.
Poverty is a very important issue in girl studies because it deals with the overall health of women across the world. Girl Power is awareness and with awareness created purpose. It is essential for women in general to understand what is destroying their development into better humans with the ultimate goal in preserving our species. Without cultured women, human evolution will be left without women involvement. “Women and girls suffer disproportionately from the burden of extreme poverty; they make up 70 percent of the 1 billion people living on less than a dollar a day.” Also when “women work two-thirds of the world’s working hours, produce half of the world’s food, yet earn only 10 percent of the world’s income and own less than 1 percent  of the world’s property.” (Lipkin 196) According to the humanitarian origination CARE; women and girls are increasingly at RISK for HIV and complications relating to pregnancy and childbirth. 850 Million People most of them women and children suffer from chronic malnutrition. CARE points out that one out of three women will be physically or sexually abuse at some point in their life. Believe it or not economic opportunities are really important in the development of girls. Without economic opportunities it leaves women in state of un-competitiveness which results in a lack of sense in value.
In my own way I would like to say that I helped in this cause by getting involved with ONIC in helping not only girls but women who make up the majority of single parent homes.  I had the opportunity to work extensively with ONIC’s Boca Club property and it is interesting what I found.  41 percent of the residents work full time, 27 percent work part time, and 32 percent is either unemployed or receives some type of aid.  Since this is a course on women studies I found out that 41 percent are single women in Boca Club and out of that, 65 percent are single mothers. Married couples make out 36 percent along with single dads make out 2 percent of the population. Out of the 41 percent of single women living, 41 percent have a full time job, and 86 percent of them have kids. 35 percent of single women in Boca Club have part time jobs and out of that 33 percent have kids. 35 percent of the single women have no jobs or are on assisted living and out of that 50 percent of them have kids. It is alarming to find that most of the residents in this low-income housing development are single mothers. It was good to know that I assisted their children while they went to work. It is pretty evident that ONIC does help women and contributes to the fighting issue of poverty and women. A program such as Sisters Hip-Hop helps impoverish girls become aware of their health, genetics, stress, and their transition into finer women-hood.
Coming from a male, who has taken on the brave task of signing up for a course like women studies. It is essential that women see fit to learn history so that their movement is more focused. I believe that women’s issues are inevitably humankind’s concern when we even look at it from an anthropological perspective. If women issues are not important then it serves as a large biological detachment for our species. Women issues go farther in depth when you begin to unravel the undercurrent of our specie’s psyche. It is a psychological battle that predates our time; the devaluation of women. It is even seen in modern bibles how women became the blame for deceiving men in the Garden of Eden. It is even wise to say in modern time; that women shouldn’t be trusted. This serves as faulty logical when you consider that back before patriarchal societies they were matriarchal societies that worshiped the great mother. The rift of change came with violence as men sought to punish women for being the ones favored by the Gods when you read ancient mythology. It was a fact that women where the ones more verse in the sciences and astronomy because the heavens mimic their biological cycle. It was in ancient mythology that women where the ones who were sought after by the luminaries and where more susceptible to change and learning. History is written by the victor and with that said women became the target of men.  Looking at women in general it is essential that women are elevated back to their natural position therefore effecting a healthy transition of our species in the future.  In conclusion poverty doesn’t only mean socio-biological and economical standard but more importantly history and education. 


Thai Lady Has Permanent Discoloration Due To Bleaching

 This is a link of Jessica Simpson Price of Beauty. Jessica interviews with a Thai women who bleach her skin which resulted to permanent pigment discoloration. The white standard of beauty not only affects blacks but it is the standard of beauty for the whole world. This sheds some light on girl’s struggle of beauty, it now becomes essential that a melting pot of beauty become the standard.  It is time that girls focus on self-value rather than madison Avenue.

Bluest Eye Book Review



The bluest Eye is a book centered around Pecola’s Breedlove’s struggle with her identity, where she figures that by being white she can be loved and amass a better life. The central story begins when Pecola moves back with her family during the time after the great depression. Her father is an alcoholic her mother is distant and often the two beats one another. Frequently her brother Sammy runs away from lack of love in the family. Pecola believes if she had the bluest eyes, she would be loved and her life would be altered.  Pecola’s parent both lived difficult lives. Pauline her mother has a lame foot so she always feels isolated. She loses herself in movies and her job where she cleans a white women’s house. This is symbolic since she loves the white women’s home and not her own. Her father Cholly, was abandoned as a child and was once humiliated when two white men found him having sex for the first time and made him continue while they watched.  He feels trapped in his marriage and lost interest in life. One day Cholly returns home and finds Pecola washing the dishes and with mix motives of tenderness and hatred rapes her. Pecola mother finds her unconscious on the floor and beats her despite confessing what actually happened. Later Pecola gets impregnated by her father that later miscarried. Cholly rapes Pecola a second time then he runs away and later dies in a workhouse. Pecola sadly became mentally insane believing that she was granted her bluest eyes and moves to the edge of town. 
This book tackled the problem with beauty standards and their effect on the world.  This book provided a story where the main character internalized white beauty standards which deformed her life.  In the world around Pecola, whiteness is superior hence her white baby doll given to her as a child. The idealization of Shirley Temple strikes her mentally as she notices that light-skinned Maureen is cuter then the other black girls. The idealization of white movies psychologically has her mother Pauline loving the white girl at her job then her daughter at home. Her mother learned to hate her blackness and passes down that hate to her child.  With this standard of beauty she is left loving whiteness and in turn devaluing herself to the point of insanity. 
Even though Pecola becomes insane it is still gives us the reader insight into her world. She sees through her eyes the difference in treatment to lighter skinned people. It is even relevant today; lighter skinned people statistically are better off. She is mistreated by the boys in her community and down to her own mom who sees no value because she has black skinned. The connection between how one is seen and what one sees has a unique tragic outcome for her.  In the Girl Studies book it sights that a girl’s body is a battle grown. (Lipkin 48) Odor must be banned, underarm hair removed, breast have to be perky, hair looking flawless, and so on. Their awareness is more focused on the exterior which lives them empty on the inside. They also tune in daily to MTV which I pronounce “EmpTyV” that leaves them superficially hooked to glitzy shows like the Hill. This book more specifically focuses on black beauty where black women go through great lengths to chemically process their hair to compete with the straightness of white women’s hair. They also constantly put chemicals to brighten their complexion which sometime leaves their skin batched with discoloration sometimes permanently.


How to Lose A Guy In Ten Days Movie Review





How to Lose a Guy in Ten Days is a romantic movie about two individuals who find each other on secretively different agendas and ultimately finds themselves falling helplessly in love with each other. As the “How to..” columnist for a trendy Composure Magazine played by Kate Hudson; agrees to a first-hand account about what it takes to drive a man out of her life by deceptively doing obvious dating “no no” in order to hellishly have a man running for the exits in 10 days. While in the other hand Benjamin Barry played by Matthew McConaughey accepts a high-stakes bet that he can lure any women into falling head over heels in love with him in also 10 days.  Winning the bet s means that Mattew becomes the front man in pitching the Delowers; a giant in the Diamond business, into an advertisement deals that will land his company fortunes. The resulting head on collision fires a “series of deliriously comic deception that prove when it comes to true love..your heart cannot tell a lie.”
Andie Anderson played by Kate Hudson is the quintessential college grad who is working for typical girly magazine with the ambitions of writing pieces about substance. Andie’s passion for writing about important issues is derailed by her boss who only concerns herself with boob jobs, Botox, Penis, and glamour. Andie represents a woman of substance and want to show that even in an overly superficial magazine like The Composer she still feels like issues that are important her; such as politics will add another dimension to the magazine. While trying to pitch a serious idea like politics to her boss she finds herself covering for a friend. Her colleague Michelle Rueben played by Kathryn Hahn had issues with men and she seems to do what Andie herself describes as Dating “No..No’s.” For example on first dates she would cry during sex and repeat how much she loves her one night stands. In return she would get the run arounds with men while Andie who know what she is doing is portrayed in the movie as being obviously successful. Michelle after her last dating ordeal finds herself bed ridding after another unsuccessful dating bonanza and is left unprepared for work in a weekly meeting with the Boss Lana Jong played by Bebe Neuwirth. Andie decided to cover for her by using her unsuccessful dating tactics in turn doing a pieces co-founded by her boss; how to lose a guy in 10 days by doing all the stuff guys find hauntingly unattractive.
During the movie the two characters interact with different goals in mind, for one Barry, because of the bet, has to stay with Andy no matter what. Even if it means attending couples therapy. Andy played with concepts such as self-esteem, purity, and monogamy. When exploring concepts such as clinginess and neediness the movie express the what not to dos as a way to teach its target audience women self-worth and confidence. Self-worth is defined by the women not by the moment as is preached in this movie. Andy showed extreme dimensions of over compensation and despotism. Like for example the role played by Kathryn Hahn showed many signs of low self-worth and an unusually negative outlook on approaching men and fear of rejection. The movie show that women who are annoying attention craving, territorial, and extremely emotional has to find a way stop! This movie teaches that women and their needs has to be more balance because without balance guys generally look the other way.
            This movie raps up with the two finally finding each other’s misdeeds which has them hilariously combating each other in a surprisingly final bout which left me on my stomach. The character Mathew finds out that this bet seems to be than he asked for as he finds himself his true love. This movie stands out because it shows the struggle of a profession woman out in the real world, helplessly ignored when striving for prestige. This flick has deep sides to it which makes it pretty interesting. I recommend this film to the class if you haven’t already watched it!